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The ‘Good’ Baby

Mama Miller has put into words what has been bugging me ever since I became a mom. I’ve always hated being asked if my son was a good baby, or if he was sleeping through the night. I know that they questions are asked with good intentions, but they can (will?) indeed make a parent question themselves even more.

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It happens so often. In grocery stores and malls and parks everywhere. People asking the question that brings prickly stress and annoyance to my soul.

“Is he/she a good baby?”

What does that even mean?!

Please stop asking new moms this question. Just don’t.

Every baby is a good baby.

A baby who sleeps through the night from 4 weeks does not possess more ‘goodness’ than a baby with colic who barely sleeps for the first year.

They are babies. Innocent. Perfect. Beautiful.

There is no such thing as a bad baby.

Some babies are, however, easier than others. It doesn’t make them good.

Some are clingy or have high needs. Being difficult doesn’t make them bad.

Please, I beg you, don’t ask it. It is inappropriate and can make new moms feel awkward. A mom with a high needs baby already has seeds of insecurity about…

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Thirty-something year old discovering the joys and bumps of motherhood.

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