I don’t know hoe you were when you first became a parent, but with my first, I was a little obsessed with milestones at first.
You know, the normal kind of milestones: first smile, first tooth, first time rolling over…
But there is another kind of milestone. These ones can’t be found in a book or cute little checklist format. These are the milestones were seldom (if ever) take the time to document because, well…they kind of make us annoyed.
I’m talking of things like: first tantrum in a public place, first time your kid pooped his/her pants, first time a mirror was “washed” with toothpaste (hiya little sister!).
And, of course, first time your kid figured out that if you keep the drain closed, the water will eventually overflow from the bathroom sink.
Yeah. That one happened today. My daughter decided to wash her hands by herself. I should have known something was wrong; she’d been far too quiet far too long. She came upstairs completely drenched saying that there was a spill downstairs. I went downstairs to find the bathroom sink overflowing, taps still running and a rather large puddle on the floor.
On the plus side, my basement bathroom floor is clean now. Plus, she did come and get me she could have just decided to continue playing in the water.
Do you have any unsung milestones to add to the list?
You know how there are some days where you can’t seem to get anything done and there are others where everything seems to go your way? Well today was one of those days. Today, I felt like a superstar.
It all started at 6:30 with a run. I ran for 30 minutes consecutively for the first time! It was sooooo awesome. I managed to get just over 4km in that time. I’m really happy (in case you haven’t already noticed) because I had set the goal to run 30 consecutive minutes or run 5k by the end of July and I did it (with 13 days to spare!).
When I got back, the kiddos were finishing up their breakfast with their dad and I sat down with them. We played downstairs while I took care of some laundry until it was time for Amélie’s nap. Once she was down, Charles helped me wash the windows in his room (he was quite proud and started washing everything else in sight in his room as I finished up). Amélie woke up, we had a little snack and then we left for the grocery store to buy a few things that we were missing for lunch.
I realized that though these little wagons are super practical, they are also quite hard to pull with 50lbs of kids inside. Oh well, second workout of the day LOL!.
When we got back, we got lunch going, they took their nap and then, we went to the water park. It wasn’t super duper hot, but it was hot enough for a bit of water to be refreshing. And since I can’t go in our pool with two kids at the same time, it was a great alternative. Charles got wet…and then he got dirty.
He didn’t really care though and his sister was having a blast looking at her brother playing in the sand while she was in the swing.
It was really great because I saw Charles interact with kids his own age. This isn’t something that I’m accustomed to seeing because he is usually really shy. I think that having something in common with his friend helped break the ice though.
Both kids were all smiles on our way home…
…and ready to keep playing once we reached our destination. Charles kept himself busy with a branch he found (seriously, what *is* it with boys and branches?).
And Amélie was her cute and silly self (when she realized that she wasn’t going to be able to grab my phone from me, she tried to remove her hat, but missed and pinched her cheek instead).
Charles decided to help me finish up my laundry by gathering all of our remaining clothespins in the same spot…
Today I have a super interesting and important post to share with you from Patricia Sarmiento who founded publichealthcorps.org. Patricia is an avid swimmer and runner. She channels her love of fitness and wellness into blogging about health and health-related topics. She played sports in high school and college and continues to make living an active lifestyle a goal for her and her family. She lives with her husband, two children, and their shih tzu in Maryland.
Pool Safety Tips for Parents of Young Children
Sometimes I feel like I grew up in the water. I started swimming at a very young age, and I wanted my children to love the water as much as I do. As a result, I introduced both my children to the pool when they were still babies. But that said, I was well aware of how dangerous the water can be for little ones.
Before I put my son in the pool for the first time, I wanted to be sure I was well-educated in water safety for babies and toddlers. If you’re the parent of a little one and you want to learn about about pool safety, try this all-inclusive guide to recreational swimming safety. Then, take a look at the tips below. These are a few of the essentials for not only keeping babies and toddlers safe around water but helping them develop confidence in the water.
Keep child within arm’s reach. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends using “touch supervision” for children under the age of 5. If little ones are in or around the water, always be within arms reach.
Start lessons early. When I started my son in swim lessons as a toddler, some of my friends and family thought I was nuts. Even my mom told me she thought I was wasting my money. But I insisted and here’s why: As this Brain World article points out, a National Institute of Health study found that swim lessons for kids ages 1 – 4 can reduce their chances of drowning by as much as 88 percent. That was enough to convince me!
Avoid using floaties. My daughter didn’t take to the water as well as my son. She hated toddler swim lessons and after two classes we had to abandon them completely. She was just too miserable. I tell you this to let you know that I, too, am guilty of letting my children use flotation devices. The one way we could get my daughter to enjoy the water was to let her float in her PFD. That said, as Water Safety Magazine explains flotation devices, such as floaties, can lead to bad habits that may make learning to swim later on more difficult.
Learn CPR. A few summers ago all the parents on our street made a pact—we would all become CPR certified. A couple of houses on my street have pools and several of us have young children. We knew our kids would be swimming a lot, and we wanted the peace of mind of knowing CPR-certified adults would always be present. So, we worked together, babysitting for each other while we attended classes until we were all certified. To this day, we all regularly renew our certification. It is something that is relatively easy to do and it can make such a big difference. Check out PoolSafely.gov to learn more about how to find a class in your area.
With the right supervision and knowledge, children of any age can be safe around the water. Keep these tips in mind, slather the kids in sunscreen, and have a great summer!